Sunday, June 13, 2010

Central to Keep Glow in the Dark

Mingling with others is not without risk. That is why the Messenger of God more praise people who want to mingle with the community and able to bear the risks and difficulties, than those who did not want to blend in and not able to be patient. So the conditions clearly, patiently.


Without patience is not impossible that causation actually diffusion negative.People impatient, not able to provide color and influence on others, but feared that he actually carried and colored by the environment.

And patience can not stand alone. There are other devices needed for someone to be able to survive and put up with various volatility and risks of mingling.

First, maintain sincere intentions. A solid foundation of sincerity will not be able to shake the owner when he must face the difficult situation resulting from the truth of what he did. Life mingle with retaining their identity and the principle must face many challenges. Not only are the challenges that suppress or block, but also the challenges that come from the door of seduction and temptation. Here its candidness tested. Therefore, the sincerity of the most important factor to be a strong person to survive with the principles in the blend.

Second, increasing knowledge. A Muslim man has a mission anywhere. A mission must be accompanied with an insight into the charge that carries a message. Science insights in this regard include the sciences of the Shari'a which directly relates the life of the community. Lack of science supplies can cause a person too simplify or complicate the problem. A Muslim should know the limit of breadth and flexibility of Islam. Up where the limits can be tolerated by the Shari'a and where the boundaries that can not be tolerated. Prophet said, "Give glad tidings and do not scatter. Make it easy, not harder. "

Third, maintaining exemplary in behavior. This is important, because generally people are not too interested in the description in the form of words of advice or advice. They will be sympathetic instead on attitude and good behavior of their immediate view. The scholars are often proclaiming the principle of propaganda, "nicely desire of you and is other," exclaimed a new or refine yourself to others. This is demands in Islamic Law.

Fourth, do not forget to always maintain and improve the quality of relationships with the community of righteous people. It is important that we continue to obtain supplies soul and spirit of refreshment when he met with them. These routines should be even more enhanced when we face many problems in life.

Fifth, understand the guidelines and stages of propagating. Islamic obligation terraced. As badness also stratified. Required a specific start different in bringing improvements. A pattern that works on someone, not necessarily applicable to others. In addition to the typical pattern of approach, a Muslim should believe that a change always takes time. Thus, a Muslim will not be easy to be disappointed or feel like a failure of efforts to repair what he did.

Sixth, understanding the art of mixing with other people. Mingle and interact with humans is not easy because each of them requires its own approach, in accordance with his character.

Seventh, expanded and multiply experience (Study's). This aspect has a major influence in shaping a prudent person in the mix with other people. People who have extensive interactions, in terms of their knowledge of the Shari'a is more useful and preaching will be more readily accepted because he has put himself under the conditions. Experience that will bring the potential, adding wisdom and patience.

source: Tarbawi

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