Sunday, August 1, 2010

Women's Activities in the Outer House

 Is permissibility women out of the house is limited to places where work and school, as well as good places (useful), or is not limited to these places? Do women have the right to leave the house to see things clear my eyes, like a scene-beautiful scenery and places of recreation?

Women can stay out of the house to enjoy the natural beauty anywhere, with the requirement should not place of destination doubtful, and this problem also applies to men as it passed for a woman.

Located in places that invite suspicion In Arabic Language (mawaqi 'at-tuhmah) is a Makruh, both for men and women. Let the woman was not in place that can lure to the deviation, as a form of anticipation of the situations in vain (useless) that attract a person through the promptings of negative instincts.

Among legal scholars caution in terms of the release of women into the sea and the river to see the men who swim, because it encourages sexual desire for women. The same thing applies to men as women see people who swim. Therefore, precautionary attitude (at-tahaf fudzh) is not specific to women before men, but also applies to men as it applies to women. If the woman can stay away from the circumstances that caused it sinks in what is haraam, then he could take the liberty to do whatever it pleases.

Why are women not allowed to walk behind the corpse?

Women should walk behind the corpse, but banning it from the emotional side, because perhaps he (she) will confuse the situation by screaming, crying, and beating (chest or head). As if he walked behind the body naturally (regular) , then no problem.

At the time she came out into the street, how to walk, speech and eyesight style?

Let the women walking outside the house like any other human being who wants to go to its destination. The highway is not the place to show the muscle (show off), and not a place to showcase the beauty or the arrogance and flirtation, but he is a field in which man moves to achieve certain goals, and let women walk in them in ways that are fair ( usual) like a human being in general:

"And the servants of God the Merciful that [is] the people who walk on earth with humility." (Surat al-Furqan: 63)

"And you're in a moderate walk." (Surah Luqman: 19)

"And do not walk on this earth with arrogance." (Surat al-Isra ': 37)

The messages (khitabat) is directed to men and women equally. And let him see what is around him fairly and not to look at other people with a gaze that invites a form of expression of sexual emotions, and let him speak with an unusual style of speech used by people to the exclusion of its existence as a female characteristic. He must speak with a reasonable way, the conversation in it is a means to convey certain messages to others without softening and coloring (embellish with unnecessary things-Ed.), So the conversation out of it expresses the meaning and becomes the stimulus who want to entice others. If this is implemented, then this is a case in which women and men met in a frame (the atmosphere) are Islamic.


source: pesantrenonline.com

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